The Girl with 4 Boyfriends

I received this fabulous life lesson from a facebook friend this morning and had to share it with you all.
Powerful!!!

Once upon a time there was this girl who had four
boyfriends.

She loved the 4th boyfriend the most and adorned him with
rich robes and treated him to the finest of delicacies. She
gave him nothing but the best.

She also loved the 3rd boyfriend very much and was always
showing him off to neighboring kingdoms. However, she
feared that one day he would leave her for another.

She also loved her 2nd boyfriend. He was her confidant
and was always kind, considerate and patient with her.
Whenever this girl faced a problem, she could confide in
him, and he would help her get through the difficult
times.

The girls 1st boyfriend was a very loyal partner and had
made great contributions in maintaining her wealth and
kingdom. However, she did not love the first boyfriend.
Although he loved her deeply, she hardly took notice of
him.

One day, the girl fell ill and she knew her time was
short. She thought of her luxurious life and wondered, I
now have four boyfriends with me, but when I die, I’ll
be all alone.

Thus, she asked the 4th boyfriend, I loved you the most,
endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great
care over you. Now that I’m dying, will you follow me
and keep me company?’

‘No way!’, replied the 4th boyfriend, and he walked
away without another word.

His answer cut like a sharp knife right into her heart.

The sad girl then asked the 3rd boyfriend, ‘I loved
you all my life. Now that I’m dying, will you follow
me and keep me company?’

‘No!’, replied the 3rd boyfriend. ‘Life is
too good! When you die, I’m going to marry someone
else!’

Her heart sank and turned cold.

She then asked the 2nd boyfriend, ‘I have always
turned to you for help and you’ve always been there for
me. When I die, will you follow me and keep me
company?’

‘I’m sorry, I can’t help you out this
time!’, replied the 2nd boyfriend. ‘At the very
most, I can only walk with you to your grave.’

His answer struck her like a bolt of lightning, and the
girl was devastated.

Then a voice called out: ‘I’ll go with you.
I’ll follow you no matter where you go.’

The girl looked up, and there was her first boyfriend. He
was very skinny as he suffered from malnutrition and
neglect.

Greatly grieved, the girl said, ‘I should have taken
much better care of you when I had the chance!’

In truth, you have 4 boyfriends in your lives:

Your 4th boyfriend is your body. No matter how much time
and effort you lavish in making it look good, it will leave
you when you die.

Your 3rd boyfriend is your possessions, status and wealth.
When you die, it will all go to others.

Your 2nd boyfriend is your family and friends. No matter
how much they have been there for you, the furthest they
can stay by you is up to the grave.

And your 1st boyfriend is your Soul, often neglected in
pursuit of wealth, power and pleasures of the world.
However, your Soul is the only thing that will follow you
where ever you go. Cultivate,
strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the only part of
you that will follow you to the throne of God and continue
with you throughout Eternity.

Thought for the day: Remember, when the world pushes you to
your knees, you’re in the perfect position to pray.

Luv Wendy
(Bella)

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Romantic Ideas

Happy Saturday Eveyone!

I found this wonderful article about Romatic ideas, and thought someone, somewhere, would love it, and hopefully you can take some ideas from it.

Romantic Ideas

Make a little loving gesture every day for one full year.
Cuddle on the sofa and watch a movie.
Take a bubble bath together.
Walk on the beach in the moonlight.
Put a note in a romance novel saying, “The story is great but our own love story is the best”.
Put a single red rose on the seat of your lover’s car before they go to work.
Send your lover a virtual postcard at least once a week.
Get every book ever written by your loved one’s favorite author.
Get every movie starring your lovers favorite actor.
Keep twenty pounds of your lovers favorite candy on hand.
Take her to see the movie Titanic fifteen times.
Make love to him/her every night until he/she asks you to stop.
Give him/her twelve dozen roses on all their special days.
Compose a list: “101 Reasons Why You’re the Greatest” Write each reason on a separate square of paper. Wrap them in a fancy gift box.
Sprinkle perfume on to light bulb. When light is turned on the scent of the perfume will fill the room.
Relax with a glass of white wine.
Listen to a romantic audio tape, fix a cup of hot flavored tea, and light two candles.
Keep a journal of your romantic fantasies. Share it with your soul mate.
Buy a bunch of fish at a pet store. It doesn’t matter what kind. Leave it for your lover with a note saying ” Out of all the fish in the sea, you are the one for me”.
Take a picture of yourself in the most sexy outfit possible. Hide in a secret spot in your house and leave him or her clues on how to get there. Watch the sparks fly!
Put a blindfold on your lover and drive them to a place where you have a blanket, candles, strawberries, sparkling drinks, and a rose. Park the car and take off the blindfold while you read a poem you have written for them.
While your lover is in the shower, or bath, put their bath towel in a hot dryer for a few minutes. Greet them when they get out of the shower with the toasty towel.
Pull the bag out of your lovers breakfast cereal box and slit a small hole in it. Insert a love note. Tape up the bag and return it to the box. What a way to start the day!
Write a list of 50 or more things you like or love about your sweetheart.
Unplug the TV set. Put a note on the screen saying, “Turn Me on Instead”. ( I love this one!!!, lol)
Play “hide-and-seek” in the rain. It’s fun and VERY sensual!

Enjoy the ideas,
Happy Romance to you
Wendy

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Celebration of Women

I have been very fortunate to have met a wonderful woman named Catherine Anne Clarke who runs a fabulous group called Celebration of Women. I can not encourage you enough to check out this group and become affiliated with Catherine . This is a woman who gives and gives, and truly inspires others to be the best they can be. I have attached a link to watch from her which you will love.

http://acelebrationofwomen.org/?p=14657

Enjoy your Saturday and Be the Best you can be today!! July 11, 2010 will only come by once, so give it all you got,, GO FULL OUT TODAY, Change a life as well as your own!
Love ya

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